50 Shades of Grey
April 17, 2015
50 Shades of Grey isn’t known for its extensive and detailed writing style. It’s known for its contents of smut and tangled emotions, which was clearly portrayed in its movie adaptation. What people continually fail to realize, and continually criticize, is the fact that the series does not in fact romanticize abusive relationships.
First, one must understand what BDSM is and its context. Its a distinct type or physical relationship that is based on mutual trust and blatant honesty, as if you are not clear, things may go too far. The acronym stands for Bondage/Discipline, Dominant/Submissive, and Sadism/Masochism, as it has overlapping letters.
In the book, and the movie, the female character Anastasia openly consents to partake in Christian’s fantasies, though she needed to be more clearly informed. Whether you approve of what they did or not, Anastasia did consent, though she and Christian should have more openly discussed what exactly would be happening in the relationship, as what happened in the movie and in the book did not portray a healthy BDSM relationship.
Overall, the movie did a good job representing the book. It was what you would expect it to be, if you read the book. Mildly unrealistic with the wildly rich and handsome Christian, and the obscenely innocent and exceedingly pretty Anastasia Steele, the movie really does pull at the intrigue of its viewers.
Kate Murray • Apr 18, 2015 at 3:57 pm
“Anastasia openly consents to partake in Christian’s fantasies, though she needed to be more clearly informed.” No. No no no. If a person consents to something without fully understanding what it is they are consenting to, that is not actually consent. It’s similar to the idea that children can’t give consent because they don’t know what sex is. Anastasia does not understand what BDSM is, and therefore cannot consent. Additionally, in the book she constantly speaks of how scared she is of him. Grey also spends a lot of time stalking her. In one of the sex scenes he proceeds without her consent because he assumes that her consenting to sex once is equal to her consenting to sex all the time, AND this is right after Ana pretend dumped him, so as far as he knew he wasn’t even her boyfriend anymore! I’m pretty sure that’s rape, and even though Ana did enjoy it and was alright with it she never expressed this outright and Grey never even asked. This is not a good example to be setting. He also broke into her house to do all this.
Here, have some links: http://academyofwomenshealth.org/videos/50-shades-of-grey/
http://www.salon.com/2015/02/13/%E2%80%9C50_shades%E2%80%9D_of_coercive_sex_the_movie_is_even_worse_than_the_book/
https://jennytrout.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/dear-50-shades-fan-bdsm-doesnt-need-or-want-your-defense/
http://www.scarleteen.com/blog/joey/2013/09/02/50_shades_of_bs_how_to_tell_the_difference_between_kink_and_abuse
Also this is literally a Twilight fanfiction, posted originally on fanfiction.net, and I do not believe that it should be discussed as anything but, because the author did not come up with the premise for the books all on her own and she should not be credited as the sole person behind this book.